November 5th, 2008
From Chris S:
Buy 12 roses, take 1 rose and pull off 1 pedal at a time untill all gone making a pedal path from where your mate may park car or entrance, all the way to the bedroom. Lead this path to the other 11 roses in a vase. In the vase with 11 roses cut lil pieces of paper like 1 inch to write very small, 1 note for each rose (Making sure each note lightly hanging under the rose, non distracting). Attach it with tie string. Each note will say specific things like, “I Love You, Your eyes are beautiful, You have a sexy Smile, Your so beautiful, I love yous sense of humor etc”. I found that personalizing each of the eleven notes is the way to go. With rose pedals leading through the house to a bouquet of unique loving comments, Who wouldn’t feel wanted and special!
This post was submitted by Chris Scholes.
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November 4th, 2008
Leave a suprise note somewhere your partner will find it.
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November 3rd, 2008
So you broke up with your girlfriend and after a few weeks you wonder if there is a proven way for getting an ex back? Well you are not alone, nor are you the first person who goes through this. But before you charge her and try to persuade her to get back together, maybe you should take a step back and relax a little before you make any rash decisions.
When I wanted to get back with my girlfriend, I took it one step at a time, and went through a process of self evaluation and decision. I recommend you do the same and this way you will know that your decisions were made on solid ground and not as primarily an emotional act.
Step 1 - Why do you want her back? You must take a closer and more real look into your own soul and understand why you really want to get your ex back. Don’t rush this phase. It is important. If you’ll get to the bottom of things you may come to the conclusion that you don’t really love her, and that you want her back just because you’re lonely. More often than not, this is not the reason the best reason for you to get back together with your ex. It’s better you’ll get yourself a life and start living them without her. This step is very important and you must get to the bottom of why you really want her back.
Step 2 - What went wrong the first time. If you don’t determine what made the relationship breakup the first time, there is little chance you will survive a second time. Just think about it - let’s say she broke up with you because you were excessively jealous . If you get back together and you don’t change your behaviour, than you will surly break up again in a few weeks time. That’s why it’s important to see what went wrong and to commit to change that. Oh, and in most cases, the person who has to change is you…
Step 3 - Setting up a meeting. After you got through steps 1 and 2 and feel ready to make the effort, call her up and ask for a meeting. In most cases she will agree, especially if you’re relationship was significant. Talk about the soul search you’ve done and tell her what’s going to change from now on. Will it work? well, if she still has feelings for you, there is a good chance that it will. Life are not certain, we all do what we can.
Step 4 - Keep your word. If you decided to give this another chance, than you must keep your word and make an honest, ongoing effort towards becoming the man you promised to be.
So how to get your ex back is not rocket science, just a process you can go through and with a bit of luck your ex will be able to see the effort you are dedicating to make the relationship work. Good Luck.
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Ron Weber is a dating expert. You can find his experiences posted at the getting an ex back blog. Just follow along as he posts his thoughts about the subject, and learn how to apply them to your life.
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November 2nd, 2008
If you have recently split up, now is a risky time for the future of your relationship. What you do in the next days and weeks might be the death or life of your relationship with your partner. Do not let your odds to drop because you are making mistakes. These 3 negatives need to be avoided.
1. Don’t call your ex. Maybe this seems mad, but it’ll only push them away even more. Continual bombardment with telephone calls is a big do not in the making-up game. A load of calls daily will make them feel scared, miserable and tired. You don’t want your ex to feel this way at all. Your ex need to get time alone to think about your past. They’ll be thinking of the good times and bad times at this point, however harassing phone calls will only have them think on the negative and strengthen the decision. This is not how to get your ex back.
2. Don’t be clingy. There is nothing sadder than hanging off an ex and telling them how much you are in need of them. You couldn’t make it much worse. If you start to come off as a kind of immature person who can’t stand on their own two feet with some self-respect it will only make you look crazy. You have to appear fine with the decision and maybe aloof. You need a perfect beginning and this is it. Your ex has to have time and space to consider their own feelings so they won’t have time to help with yours too.
3. Don’t beg them to return. Doing this after a break is inviting problems. You need to remember not to go down this road, however real you feel, as there’s only negativity surrounding it. If you act like this it appears that you have lost the plot and then may be a continuing issue in the future and this is not much to look forward to.
So do not phone your ex and attempty to turn off the taps on your emotions just after breaking up. It is this time that you need to be strongest to prepare to win your ex back. Be more positive during this time and you can start towards saving your relationship. This is how win back your ex.
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November 1st, 2008
Plan a night where you indulge your partner’s fantasies. It might help to talk to them about it first!
a sexy nurse?
a sexy cheerleader?
a sexy police woman?
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October 31st, 2008
“How do YOU get your ex to return your phone
call, text or IM?”
I know you may not believe me when I say
this but, I KNOW HOW!
Do you think there are ‘magic’ words you can
use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
It may sound hard to believe but there ARE words that will actually cast a spell on your ex and make them feel compelled to return your call.
Don’t Believe Me?…
The biggest questions from the over
35,000 subscribers just like you that are
trying to put their relationship back
together is…
“CAN YOU TELL ME HOW TO GET
MY EX TO RETURN MY PHONE
CALL, TEXT, OR IM?”
But…
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WARNING!
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COMPLETE STRATAGY LAID OUT
FOR YOU!
That’s right! In the Magic Of Making Up,
a complete strategy is laid out FOR YOU
at the link below.
However, you stand a chance of damaging
your relationship even more if you try to
use this highly sought after technique on
your own WITHOUT guidance and an
‘overall’ plan or strategy…
What I mean is if you try this by yourself kiss your chances good buy for your ex may never returned your call.
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What you should NEVER Say!
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Let’s go over what messages will most likely
NOT work before we get into the actual words,
and what’s worse…
will put you in an AWFUL
‘psychological’ position.
Most of the time they will fall into 2 categories.
1. The PLEADING call-
This is where your message sounds like…
“Tyron, this is the 3rd time I have called.
I HAVE to talk to you.” Will you please please
call me?”
2. The EMERGENCY call-
“Vanessa, please call me as soon as you get this.
This is an emergency, really!”
I won’t go on and on about these because I
think you can see what is wrong with both
approaches, right?
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How Using
Self Interest & Curiosity
Is To Your Advantage
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The human mind has some powerful
forces and two of them are…
*Self Interest &
*Curiosity
Sooo, what’s the BIG SECRET?
Have you ever baked a cake?
Baking a cake is magical if you follow a
certain recipe, right?
You go from a lump of dough to a fluffy
baked cake.
However if certain main ingredients are
missing then the cake won’t magically
rise or turn out.
Sound simple?
Well, as you combine the ingredients, you
have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’
Would you like to see the words that
work nearly EVERY TIME?
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What you SHOULD say!
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In a friendly tone:
“Hi Tyron. It’s Vanessa. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me so I can thank you in person.”
This way you are using BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
Tyron will think…
“What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?”
He will NOT be able to resist calling you
back! And he feels good because it is a
positive message.
OK now…
If you are Vanessa and before you make
the curiosity/self interest type of call
you need to do a “SET UP… which is
figuring out what Tyron actually did
that you appreciate.
It may be any small thing but needs to
be something valid and legitimate.
But more importantly…
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WARNING #2!
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Make sure to have an underlying strategy
like is laid out in the “Magic Of Making
Up” System, BEFORE you call.
If you click the link below you can see
the “Magic Of Making Up” System
Remember, if you don’t handle this
correctly it is very possible to do more
DAMAGE then good if you try to apply this
technique with no supporting strategy.
Got It?
So, what should be your strategy?…
Just getting them to return your call is not
really the most important thing in your
strategy.
What you do before, during and after you
get them to return your call is.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!
For Better or For Worse
Randall Paul
PS. There is a saying that goes something
like this…
“The definition of insanity is doing the
same thing over and over expecting a
different result.”
Don’t do this alone, get some help by
clicking here www.IGotMyExBack.com
and start expecting a better result.
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October 30th, 2008
To read an updated version about marriage help and ways to save your marriage also check out How To Save Relationships.
Getting separated or a divorced seems to be a very simple process, but it leaves a high impact on personal and family life of a person. The person undergoing this process may face lot of pain and stress and lose the personal as well as social stability.
It is extremely stressful experience especially for the children of divorcing parents, irrespective of sex and age. They may get mentally disturbed and their future may get spoiled. Hence, it is often advised to save the marriage for the children.
Usually, the world of children is limited to their parents and they are totally dependant on their parents for all their needs. What they require in their growing age is affection and protection from their parents. When their parents take the decision of separation, they emotionally may collapse and become restless.
When the problem of child custody arise in the court, it may become very difficult for the child to choose one of the parents with whom he/she is supposed to live with in future because the child loves both the parents equally. In case of underage child, the court takes the decision about the custody of child which may be forceful for the child. Hence, to protect the right of a child to have both the parents, you need to save the marriage for the children.
As the divorce affects the economical status of an individual, it might become difficult for a single parent to take proper care of a child. Since, divorce or marriage separation is not socially accepted in some countries, the child may feel embarrassing in the society. There may be some problems in emotional bonding of children and parents. A child of divorced parents might experience a feeling of intense anger, insecurity and loneliness.
The consequences of divorce affect almost every aspect of the children’s lives such as emotions and behavior coping skills, psychological development and the parent-child relationship. The children may feel helpless and lonely due to frustration which may lead to some health problems such as sleep difficulties.
There may be some destructive changes in children’s behavior such as alcohol abuse, drug addiction, violence or the attempts to suicide. Other behavioral problems include nervous habits, school problems or regressive behaviors like bedwetting or use of the comfort items including blanket or stuffed toys. Hence, before taking any harsh decision, find out some solutions to save the marriage for the children.
Once you decide that you should save the marriage for the children, you should start working on it. You can first find out the problems in your married life and ways to resolve them. When you come to about the problems, both of you should equally take efforts to solve them and save the marriage.
You need good communication to express your feelings and to listen to and understand your partner. You may take the help of your family or friends and get an advice from them. If this is not sufficient, you can go for marriage counseling which may help you to understand your problems and differences and suggest some solutions.
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October 29th, 2008
To read an updated version and to get the most out of your relationships check out love and relationship advice.
In this article I’m going to share 5 ways to save a marriage. Marriage is one of the happiest and memorable times in our lives. It is a union of not only two individuals, but also of two different upbringings and/or cultures. After a cheerful start of married life, there might be a possibility or beginning of some conflicts. These conflicts may be due to some misunderstandings, ego or other personal problems. Sometimes the bitterness in a relationship crosses the tolerance level that the couples think of getting separated.
However, a divorce affects the personal and social lives of both partners. You will be surprised to know that your marriage problems can be fixed. Here are 5 tips to save a marriage that can be effectively implemented in your married life.
The first step to resolve your marriage problems is to agree that these problems exist. You should be honest with yourself, you should be able to identify the differences in your relationship and try to improve them. If you’re trying to walk away from your issues, they will never be solved. Accept the situation as it is and be prepared for the challenges which you may come across.
Keep in mind that you cannot solve a problem that you cannot see. This philosophy is definitely true in case of marriages. If you feel that your husband has changed the way of interaction, then find out the reasons behind it. The best solution is to start the conversation with your spouse and give him several opportunities to ‘open up’. Keep your ears and mind open for the subtle hints from his conversation.
Saving a marriage is not merely solving the problems. Reigniting your love for each other is one of the most effective ways to save a marriage. You could also express your passion for your partner with special dates or surprises. Remember the most romantic times you spent together and just go recreate them with an addition of a unique approach.
Give some time for each other to share the feelings. The purpose is to grab the attention of your partner and to make the relationship healthy with natural attraction. If you are successful in developing the passion for each other, then other problems can be immediately solved.
There may be a lot of obstacles when you are trying to fix the relationships. It might be difficult for you to talk to your husband or you may be facing outside pressures from the family which may prevent you to focus on your goals. Even after facing these barriers, you should be persistent on achieving your goals. If one approach doesn’t work, you can try another approach that may work. You should be able to handle these conflicts safely.
One of the most important steps is to seek the right advice from your friends and family. You should try to get an expert advice from counseling sessions or books before you take any major decision. A wise advice can save a marriage, while bad advice may ruin it.
Knowing about 5 ways to save a marriage, you would be able to resolve the problems if any in your marriage and live a happy married life.
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October 28th, 2008
Along with the flowers, candles and rose petals - buy some luxury sheets to enjoy rolling round in.
And how about a sexy costume?
Here are some lingerie stores in New Zealand and Australia if you are from those parts!
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October 27th, 2008
Celebrate the anniversary of the day you met or the day you first kissed.
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October 26th, 2008
Guys - your idea of sexy lingerie is normally not her idea of sexy lingerie! Put aside your X-rated dreams unless she is into that normally. Remember she has to be comfortable!
Gals - put aside your inhibitions and buy yourself some “naughty” lingerie to suprise him.
For New Zealanders and Australians you can start at Knickers and Things for your lingerie search.
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